This holiday weekend plays out so differently depending on who you are and what are your circumstances. Certainly, some feel compelled to visit the graves of loved ones, maybe devote quiet time or prayer remembering those who have died. Some focus on auto racing or other sports, either as participants or spectators. Some use it as a great excuse to stay drunk for longer than the normal weekend. Most, I suspect, weather permitting use the long weekend to get outdoors, relax, maybe catch up on projects and enjoy themselves.
We’re clearly with the majority here…which is not to say that we didn’t give any thought to those who have died…or even to the subject of death. (I listened to Episode #93 of This American Life which was broadcast on Valentine’s Day 1998 which begins with a love letter from an extremely angry husband to his sleeping wife and ends with the most personal and graphic poems written by a husband to and about his wife who has just died. I highly recommend you listen to this broadcast if you have a spare hour. Some of you know of my intention to listen to all 450-some hours of this program. I am 94 hours into my goal and am only up to 1998).
So, the weekend began with high wind warnings. I got chicken and pulled down the shade sails, cancelled the gardeners until this morning and thought about hunkering down, but the projects kept presenting themselves: I installed one of the new oak handrails, cut the other one to make a safer descent and did some more planting.
Charlie and Karen Goodell, the campers, invited Sylvia and Jeremy and Pat, one of Karen’s friends, over for brats and burgs yesterday. It was very low-key and most enjoyable to just enjoy the great weather, drink a little wine, eat great food and visit in a MOST normal, neighborly way. Oh, there was the great “my calves are more developed that yours are” contest which later led to a “TT” discussion (remind me to tell you about that AMAZING story sometime). The Goodells were great hosts, and we were somewhat sad to leave only to come home and reconcile the checkbook which ended up with a protracted call to American Express and different plans for future online bill payment.
The 50-60 mph winds revisited last night after I’d put the sails up again, but no damage was noted when we got up this morning.